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After all, sexting isn’t just the province of the young and reckless: According to Pew Research, 34 percent of adults aged 25 to 34, and 22 percent of adults aged 35 to 44, have received sexts, too.
So if you’re to sext, which you are, you might as well do it safely.
On Sunday, the woman sent Lim a video link, allegedly of him nude, demanding RM1,500 and threatening to make the video public if he did not pay her soon.“It’s very useless if you try to block me,” she added in an accompanying message.
Lim said he was horrified when he received the threat.“I felt embarrassed and helpless. He then sought MCA Public Services and Complaints Department head Datuk Seri Michael Chong’s help.
Leaving aside the potential moral/legal/etiquette problems with sexting, of which there are admittedly many, digital nudes suffer two main privacy problems.
First off, unlike physical pictures, they’re endlessly easy to copy, save and spread.
Here is the most important sexting advice of all: Only send NSFW content to people you trust.
Lim’s ordeal started last Friday when he accepted Capistrano’s friend request.“It was a random friend request, but I accepted it,” he said, adding that he started chatting with Capistrano, who claimed to be from the Philippines, shortly after that.If you've ever sent or received a sext, you're not alone.In a 2013 study, about 27% of all smartphone users said they receive sexts on a regular basis, and 12% admitted to sending nudes (though the people polled may have been being coy). But it's also totally normal to want to maintain control of the way your nudes are seen and distributed.One note: If you’re under 18, never, ever, under any circumstances, share a photo of yourself naked.You can be prosecuted as a sex offender, even for sending a picture of yourself consensually.